Whether you want to attract a woman for one night or for a lifetime, there is one tip that can instantly improve your chances with a woman once you’re having a conversation or a date with her…
So what is this simple yet powerful tip?
1 Simple Tip that Makes ALL of Your Interactions with Women Better…
Let her talk.
Yep, that’s it.
I could end this article now and just let that sink in, but I’ll give you a little bit more context to make it easier to apply this simple concept:
Whenever you’re having a conversation with a woman you want to attract, she should be talking 60-80% of the time…
Your job is to facilitate her enjoying talking a lot, not trying to tell her stuff you think will make her like you. <==Read 7x…
Ironically, when she talks a lot and tells you all kinds of things about herself and her life, she feels like she knows you much better than if you talk a lot.
And, more importantly, this also makes her more ATTRACTED to you.
The best part?
It’s easier to let her talk a lot because then you don’t have to try to come up with what to say next to impress her etc.
It also makes you more mysterious and more of a challenge by default.
And challenge is what women want.
So, when a woman is talking a lot with you, assuming she has some romantic interest in you to begin with, she starts feeling much more attracted to you and much more comfortable with you at the same time…
And she feels like she knows you better even though you also seem more mysterious and challenging.
I know, this tip might sound simple or it might even sound counterintuitive, but just letting a woman talk a lot can improve your dates 100x with even less work than it takes to try to come up with the perfect thing to say all the time.
And I’m all about winning with the minimum effort required. =)
You probably already have a job; so, you should be focusing on relaxing, having fun, getting to know a woman, and either building tension if you’re going for hookups or seeing if she’s really a good fit for you or not if you want a relationship when you’re on a date.
You shouldn’t be working too hard.
So, whenever you’re talking to a woman or you’re on a date with a woman:
-Ask her open-ended, fun questions that allow her to talk a lot…
“If you could be any animal, what would you be and why?”
“If you hit the lottery jackpot and never had to work again, what would you do then and why?”
-Ask her follow-up open-ended questions that let her talk even more…
“Oh, that’s interesting…what made you love horses so much?”
-LISTEN to what she’s saying – you should be able to take a test on what she shares later – but DO NOT lean in to the conversation (sit back, relax, have fun, and listen <=This is your mantra)…
-Play off of what she shares with some new threads…
If she shares something and it reminds you of a short, fun story, tell it and then ask her a new open-ended question.
-Sprinkle in some playful teasing and tension when you get the chance…
-Keep the conversation LIGHT and FUN for the most part (no heavy, serious subjects)…
-Share back a little bit (of course you can talk about things you want to talk about a bit as well; just make sure you let her talk more than you talk and you’re golden. Also, don’t share things that you think will make her like you or brag [this shows she is in the higher position and destroys attraction]; just share relevant things from your life that seem interesting to you)…
And, that’s it!
Remember: When you’re on a date with a woman…
LET.
HER.
TALK!
Talking to a woman on a date should not be something that holds you back at all…and letting a woman talk is like a superpower that men rarely use.
So, from now on, put this superpower into play with every woman you meet and watch how much more successful you are with them.
And, if you want to MASTER having attractive conversations with a woman so you can just relax, have fun, and be yourself when you’re talking to your ideal woman, then make sure you grab the FLIRTING MASTER program and start applying it now if you haven’t already.
Alright sir, that’s it for now…
Until Next Time,
Jim
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